To be “stylish” is to be free, to be able to express and reflect your personality through your outfits. Everybody has their own way of expression, meaning their own way of pairing clothes together.
Many people think following rules and “trends” are enough to be considered stylish, of course you can get inspiration from trends, fashion shows, bloggers, but YOU have to let yourself go, feel free, because there’s more to style than just that.
Your clothes are just accessories, your confidence does the rest. Without confidence your style will just look plain. As soon as you believe in yourself and get confident, you will start dressing differently, you will dare more, then, people will see you in a different light.
I myself recently decided to become “stylish” and care less about what anyone thinks or says about me. Being around negative people doesn’t make you reach your full potential. Just know you’ve got it in you somewhere. If I can do it, you definitely can to.